Go Selfless!
Selfless- a 8 letter word that is hardly seen in the hearts of the people today..
Going up to an extent that you have never been to for each other is selfless..
This world would make a better place if ‘SELFLESS LOVE’ existed.
Its too much of selfishness that is in our lives today.
Its abt what i want, what i need to eat, what i need to look good in,my looks, my wardrobe, my needs, my career, my life and goes on and on…blah blah blah..
Cmon, what are we gaining by looking unto our own??? Why is there so much war and violence?
Why is there so much jealousy? Why are so many self-centered? Why is there no giving??
In all these years of my life so far, I jus learnt to give as much as possible in a relationship..be it any relationship not neccessarily lovers or couples, but also parents, friends, brothers, sisters etc.,..
Give as much love as you can to a friend even if there’s not much love from the other end, even if there’s not much commitment for the important term ‘friendship’, even if you don’t get calls or sms.. jus give your love..pray for your friend..do as much as u can evryday for a friend.. Its purely amazing..
Your heart starts lighting up with joy, when there is so much giving.
Its true that selfless love hurts when there is total ignorance from the other end..
But its all worth it, The Lord rewards it amazingly.
JESUS is the best example of SELFLESS LOVE..
He died on the cross for you and me.. Would anyone die for u? Isn’t that so selfless?
Jesus loved his enemies.. would anyone love a person who hates u? And that’s what we should be like.
Love people who don’t like you by loving them with the love of Jesus.. I have tried it.. its really a gud feeling..Gives inner peace and contentment!
Lenny Le blanc sang this song:
What could make this world a better place?
Nothing less than amazing grace
What could help the lonely ones endure?
I believe I’ve found a miracle cure
Only love could bridge the great divide
Only love can move a mountain
Only love could ever change my heart
Only the love of my Jesus
Only the love of my Savior
You sacrificed everything for me
Made a guilty man so free
Sinless hands nailed to a cross
What would make You wanna
Die for the lost?
Only love could ever change This heart of stone
Only love could ever lead Me home
When i think about the word ‘SELFLESS’, my eyes jus widen up so wide and bright……..
as a flash of all the people come across my mind who are so ‘SELFLESS’..
Mother Teresa, a noble woman who jus blew us away with her SELFLESS LOVE.. abundance of love..
her heart just overflowed for the poor and needy..
She said:
Do not think that love, in order to be genuine, has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired.
And whenever i think about getting hurt(when there is no reciprocation) while loving a person abundantly… immeasurably..
her quote jus comes across my mind..
I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.
Its all about SELFLESS LOVE!
I don’t think there should be room in our hearts to get hurt..but jus give room for growing love!!!
As humans, we tend to get hurt.. But the grace of the Lord suffices..
and makes us love the person more and more
The next kind of people who exhibit selfless love are the firemen and the armymen.
The firemen risk their own lives for saving people.. and the armymen risk their own lives for saving their nation.
I have huge respect for them cos of their impeccable humility and their willingness to serve selflessly.
I believe that God has laid up crowns for these folks.. They are jus marvellous!
Its all about SELFLESS LOVE!
Sometimes the little moments of life are like the most joyful memories that stay in my heart!
Dad and Mum are like the most selfless people.. it doesn’t exist in all families!
But i have seen it so much in my family.. They always want the best for us!
I have learnt so much from them and dream of being like them in this aspect one day!
Again, Its all about SELFLESS LOVE!
One of my close friends, very endearing to me.. kitty.. who i’ve known for almost 5 years and have known her for her selfless nature..
One thing that i noticed in her is about giving gifts on people’s bdays.. She gives so much being a Pastor’s kid..
With the little money she has, She makes the others feel so special and i’ve learnt so much from her..
And again, Its all about SELFLESS LOVE!
I have jus taken few examples and i know its such a blessing to see people who display selfless love.
Its all about giving.. giving and giving.. Perfectly breath-taking.. when you give so much..
You jus can’t believe it and its like this feeling that youv’e let go off your burdens from yourself when you give..
Even if we go thru hassles of life.. we don’t think about our problems when we give.. when we show love to others.. Its beautiful!
So start being selfless if you haven’t started..It’s worth it!
There isn’t much better in this life than finding a way to spend a few hours in conversation with people you respect and love.
You have to carve this time out of your life because you aren’t really living without it.
Buddy.. GO SELFLESS!











Wonderful article Jo…
I love the third para especially
“Give as much love as you can to a friend even if there’s not much love from the other end, even if there’s not much commitment for the important term ‘friendship’, even if you don’t get calls or sms.. jus give your love..pray for your friend..do as much as u can evryday for a friend.. Its purely amazing..”
Thanks for sharing
ya i believe it reflects to u bob!
God bles u..am glad that this article touched u! Thank God for that@
Beautiful article Jo! Very true..the human society has lost the value on selfless love.
By reading your article, I was just reminded of my own selfish attitude on silly matters like you mentioned in the beginning..
“Its abt what I want, what I need to eat, what I need to look good in,my looks, my wardrobe, my needs, my career, my life and IT goes on and on…blah blah blah..”
Yeap, the list goes on..there will not be an end to this unless & until we reduce ourself to selfless love. I am very glad that you shared this blog with me, especially this article – Selfless love.. I felt this message was just for me & reminded me that I do have an attitude check to make.
Thanx dear & keep on posting!!:) God bless you in abundance & use you Mightily for His Glorious Kingdom!!
Thnx ruby so much!
Thank God that it spoke to u… i know that God wil mak u into a wonderful selfless woman
Amen to that!
God blez ya…luv u..xox!
Yes od keep checkin my blog!..
Beautifully written article….. heart felt and amazing…. way to go gal!! liked it…… can relate to the same in my life too…. keep the articles coming….. wud luv to read them…. take care n God bless ya….
thnx so much irine! God bless u!
er in this life than finding a way to spend a few hours in conversation with people …hmmm very true .
The world is very fast , everyone is busy.If we have a heart to listen to others , care for others , help others.Then the world will be a better place for everyone
good write up jo and keept it coming
thnx anish
jo, u have no idea how much i needed this message today
you couldn’t have timed it any better than this! God bless u!
thnk God Leya!
Jo, its a wonderful message which reminded me of my selflessness. Well I dont know how better selfless person I am but whenever I ask myself, I always get response that ‘go sandeep do sumthing for them’. From last some time I have been bit reluctant with my selfless life and living just a neutral life, may be because of my expectation to get sumthing back from others and when didn get it, i was hurt
, however after reading ur blog I reminded myself that selflessness is not a deal that u do and u get it back but its about JUST keep loving others. and I realized it again. I feel more confident and happy with full of joy and want to be selfless as much i can. May God Give me enough strength and wisdom and keep providing guidance from sumwhere like this BLOG. God bless u Jo. Keep up
thnk God sandeep.. as expectation hurts a lot.. its all abt jus givin
the love wud jus grow more.. rembr that even wen u think of gettin hurt.. dont giv it a chance.. but jus giv room for love!
jo the article is really very nice and thought provoking….i thank God for this talent of yours to through which he enables you to make people realize the important things in life…. Its all about being selfless…..
cheers!!!!! may God continue to lead you….
thnx dany..praise God for that!
well written joanne …
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really like it …
Thought of a song when I read this …
called ‘If everyone cared’ … by Nickelback …
might not be on the same lines … but somehow felt so …
anyways… keep writin
ya dats a lovely song jona!
uhmm.. was looking at this post for a long time! hmm.. Nice jo! True we need a lot of selfless love!
Less of self n more of Jesus
Is the key that will help us thro’
He left us THE Perfect Example
So all that’s left for us is DO DO DO!!!
( Good thought Jo. Keep it up! God Bless)
Sarah
@ Al..thnx a lot!
@ Sarah aka.. ya thnx for readin!
I remember the song.. love is the protest! I think V need a lot of love! N like how God said the path to follow him is very narrow.. n it sure feels hard to love a lot!
ya
Jo… truly an wake up call for me, now i kno wher i stand from wut i used to b..As i’ve known u closely, i kno jus cuz u r selfless u cud write this, proud ofya Buddy. wonderful job, Jo! God bless u abundantly, i kno He’s already, by using u
Jennie, Go Selfless… dash every heart wid an out pour of His Love!!
thnx jennie.. praise God for givin me these thoughts to put down here!
hey im Dr.Ragu… im not so good at writin coz of ma language pls adjust… selfless love…… i dont know what to write but this word and its meaning is huge and it touched me a lot… life is different in the eyes of each individual… even in my mind there are huge concepts on this topic for more than 4yrs wit ma frnd.. u gave a huge example on jesus and mother teresa…. in all culture and many prophets said about this.. and according to me this is connected with soul… this selfless love to all living being including human… for example if u grow a plant with full of love and care from your heart it will grow healthy its modern research.. but this is our culture we know it from childhood… and my concepts on this i dont know to write by words coz its tooo huge may be if time permits we can discuss…. any way its gr8 work and good feeling and thoughts in u….. nice words… god is wit u and all….. go on with this…. all wil join your hands…
thnx ragu
i believ from what i knew you for a day.. i believ ur selfless..and wil continue to b
wazzup jo! no new posts ??
wil b writin soon..workin on a poem!